"But how much is too much? Was I wrong to Tweet details of my wife’s hospital stay and daughter’s arrival? Is it inappropriate to plaster a website with pictures of my children if I choose not to password protect the site? Is being as open-booked as I am (ask me about my flaws … I’ll gladly tell you those, too) beneficial or a detriment to my work, my friendships or my future?
How open are you? What would you share that would make you uncomfortable? What could you share that would make your family so?"
I may share too much. I wrote about our entire IVF journey and trying to have a baby. But I look at it as an awareness tool. I enjoy other blogs where I can learn from their experiences etc. That is why I positioned mine the way I did. It started as a fun blog for my family and friends. But once we were on Oprah and people found my blog I then realized it was time to use it for other means.
ReplyDeletei love the fact that you share.. i feel that i can now see how you and jen live and surivive with the will power that i wish i had.. the strength you all have is amazing.. and it defintely is a learning tool.. not only for strength and persaveriance... but hope! keep sharing and i will keep sharing my life with all of you!
ReplyDeleteWell, I began Annabels blog to share her story of living with Trisomy 18. Even though many do not survive, the doctors never informed us of the few that do. She is joy everyday even when ill, and I wanted others who are on this road to be aware. The drs. encourage termination of the pregnancy, I believe God will take care of things in His own time. So whatever I have to share to get the message is what I will do. Thank you for sharing.
ReplyDeleteCAthy & Annabel
My vulnerability on the web has landed me with some identity theft issues...which is unfortunate. Thank goodness I was able to resolve things by utilizing a local police investigator, additional steps to protect my identity, and letters of dispute. In the end, it wasn't as major as it could have been. But it caused me a lot of stress and time.
ReplyDeleteThe internet has its pros and cons like everything else. I have teenage kids who are saying God knows what........ There comes a point where I trust God and let Him lead me as far as what to share online.
We've had 2 websites totally hacked and phishers trying to get access through our forums. Don't be deceived.....there are just plain out cruel, greedy, selfish people out there who don't care.
But I am reminded that God said that in the last days that darkness in the hearts of men would grow darker and lightness shine brighter.
I don't want to allow fear (and TERROR) to dictate my life. I've done a lot of good by sharing my story online with others. But I must admit that any creep could find me if they really wanted to.
Good thing I have a great watchdog...and the name of Jesus to protect me should anything come my way.
Great questions.....we are living in an odd age......
I have been praying for your family since paster Jeff told us about your daughter. I also have been checking your blog daily.
ReplyDeleteI check your blog because it gives me strength and encouragement. Your family has the most amazing faith and to share that with the universe is a huge gift to me. You have an awesome ability to communicate your feelings.
I say keep sharing what the Lord puts on your heart. If it helps you to record the details of your day, great. I am pretty sure we are unaware of how our words can impact others. Yours are lifting up many people all day long. We all have struggles and need to share and see how others deal.
God designed you perfect and is leading you to share. If all good comes from above than keep on sharing your gift of writing. I know your words lead me strait to the Lord.
Thank-you
Donna Devenport
sister in Christ, at St. John's